"所謂的愛情﹐就是上天賜予的另一個奇跡。
雖然遇見一個鐘情於彼此的人﹐是件很不容易的事情﹐
但只要真心相信﹐用心找尋﹐就能在我們的生命中﹐
在茫茫人海里﹐找到那個人﹐
而那個人﹐也會在許多男孩﹑女孩之中﹐看見獨一無二的你."
thePiscesGirl`
Thursday, November 06, 2008
today i'm gonna blog about a friend of mine.
i shall name him XXX.
he's facing alot of problems recently..
i know he wanted to change and he's actually trying very hard...
but it seems like no one's willing to give him a chance to do so?
seriously speaking,
the impression he gave me when i first saw him, its....neither good nor bad.
he's a friendly guy who's willing to help his friends, and i think he places his friends at the first priority..
but to me, he's also a guy who lost his direction in life.
he lives aimlessly... just letting the days pass by each day.
it shouldn't be this case for a guy isn't it?
i dislike guys who don't have this...self-confidence, this..... i don't know what you call that.
after so many people talking and discussing about him, i feel like i cannot just stand behind doing nothing as his friend.
i hate it when people talk bad about my friend.
so, i spoke to him..
i told him about what i thought and everything. tried my best to help him too.
and he promised me that he'll put in effort and tries to change for the better.
i can hear it from his sincere tone that he's really serious and he meant what he said.
after few days passes...
i still hear these people talking some stuffs behind him.
what is it they really want?
its not like people will change in a day or so, it takes time right?
sighs.
even friends gave him pressure?
firstly, for a guy who's not studying.. first priority should be work right?
he needs to support his family and his own expenses too.
but in the end, friends complained that he's spending lesser and lesser time with them as each day passes due to work.
they used to hang around almost everyday and everynight.
how much time they spent together a week?
....
now, he's trying his best to juggle between work and friends.
i can feel how hard is it for him..
as his friends, shouldn't you guys be supporting him for what he wants to do?
he's already at this ** age.. he can't possibly be spending his whole life hanging out with you guys right?
please, you guys are grown ups already, no longer small kids who can't think.
its not like he didn't put aside time for you all, its just that the time spent is getting lesser.
he still treats you guys as his best-est friends.
do spare a thought for him, please?
he's gonna breakdown anytime i think.
and i know, his family will be so disappointed if he continues to live his life like this.
i don't know if you guys (XXX's friends) will read my blog,
but just wanna say..
i know you guys too, and i think you all are very very nice people.
don't be mad at him if he can't spend as much time as he used to with you all.
i don't want you all to quarrel over minor matters like this, just support him..will you? (:
XXX, jiayous!
i'll support you all the way, provided you do things right. haha(:
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i don't know what i'm trying to say. just.. feel like blabbering stuffs here.
i'm really really happy recently.
i'm better off without him(:
thanks for getting out of my life earlier, if not i think i will be suffering so much more.
shall resume listening to the programming lecturer!
enough of all these.
byebye!
(:
ling`
Footprints,11/06/2008 03:33:00 PM
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